|Hitting the desert yesterday to avoid the April snow.|
The entourage and myself were hangin' in the desert at the zoo. We were literally the only people in the place and spent a lot of time watching the hummingbirds. Nothing out the ordinary. Then Etienne said "Mom, I can remember riding on my mom's back before you got me. She had black hair and everyone around me had brown skin too."
I took a moment to respond. I asked him how he felt to remember that.
"I don't know. Maybe happy a little." He skipped ahead of me with his siblings.We go along thinking we are in the midst of an ordinary Monday, and then BOOM! some memory from the back of this kid's brain creeps up. At first I thought that maybe he was mixing memories of photographs with memories from before he came home. However, he hasn't wanted or seen photos in at least 3 years (his choice). I guess I may think that he has memories from one of the older kids, the "nanny," carrying him. Ultimately, I don't know and I don't think it matters that much since he says he felt okay with it.
It's probably nothing that E didn't sleep well last night; that he began his day at 4:50 AM. I will ride this one out and see where we end up. Someone asked me how I felt about this memory. As long as he isn't hurting more from it, I will embrace it. There are so many holes and speculations and unknowns in my boys' histories that if a flash of a black hair and brown skin brings Etienne comfort, I will take it.